to many people. I saw another cartoon recently in which six-year-old Calvin takes a walk with his stuffed tiger, Hobbes. Calvin says, “Nothing I do is my fault! My family is dysfunctional, my parents won’t empower me. Consequently, I’m not self-actualized. My behavior is addictive, functioning in a diseased process of toxic codependency. I need holistic healing and wellness before I’ll accept any responsibility for my actions.” Hobbes gives Calvin a quizzical look and comments, “One of us needs to